This is Why You Are a Perfectionist | Mr. Elon Kline | TEDxUniversityofDelaware | perfectionist

This is Why You Are a Perfectionist | Mr. Elon Kline | TEDxUniversityofDelaware

The idea of embracing a perfectionist identity takes away our power to control the outcomes of our lives. We can take control of our personal power by understanding the detrimental belief of perfectionism and embracing the idea that we are naturally imperfectionist. The more we understand how perfection is unattainable, the less control it has over us. The more we understand how our imperfections are natural, the more power we have over our thoughts and our actions. The power is within us, we just need to understand how to identify it and how to use it. Elon Kline is a sophomore at the University of Delaware pursuing a degree in Interpersonal Effectiveness in Leadership. Elon is passionate about selfdevelopment seen by his pursuit for a future career in motivational speaking. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx

The Perfectionist Trap

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“We typically aim for a particular career because we have been deeply impressed by the exploits of the most accomplished practitioners in the field. We formulate our ambitions by admiring the beautiful structures of the architect tasked with designing the city’s new airport, or by following the intrepid trades of the wealthiest Wall Street fund manager, by reading the analyses of the acclaimed literary novelist or sampling the piquant meals in the restaurant of a prizewinning chef. We form our career plans on the basis of perfection.

Then, inspired by the masters, we take our own first steps and trouble begins. What we have managed to design, or make in our first month of trading, or write in an early short story, or cook for the family is markedly and absurdly, beneath the standard that first sparked our ambitions. We who are so aware of excellence end up the least able to tolerate mediocrity – which in this case, happens to be our own….”

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The Problem With Perfectionism

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“Perfectionism is the unreasonable and selfdefeating ambition of getting something absolutely right – which makes us difficult to be around and punishing to live within.
The origins of perfectionism lie in the imagination, in the ease with which we can conjure up a picture of an ideal state of affairs, compared with the monstrous difficulty of bringing such a state into being by ourselves. The sickness of perfectionism gestates in the fertile gap between our noble visions and our mediocre reality…”

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Tales of a Recovering Perfectionist | Adrianne HasletDavis | TEDxStLouisWomen

Because of a tragic experience, Adrianne has had to learn an entirely new meaning to the word patience. With her positive attitude and determination Adrianne has returned to the dance floor and has been an inspiration to others who have been faced with adversity.

Adrianne HasletDavis is a survivor of the 2013 Boston Marathon bombings where she lost her left leg below the knee. She is also a former Fortune 500 corporate manager and fulltime professional ballroom dancer.

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Why perfectionists become depressed | Dr Keith Gaynor

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